Introverts Need People Too

Introverts need people too

Contrary to popular belief, introverts need people just as much as extraverts do –just in different ways. Introverts don’t necessarily get their energy from being around people the way that extraverts do, but we still need people for emotional/psychological reasons.

Why Everyone needs people:

#1 We need to know we’re not alone

At some point in life, everyone wants to know they’re not alone –even if they don’t want to admit it. When you’re isolated for too long, you can’t help feeling that isolation –either that or you just start to feel empty inside. Continue reading

The Myers-Briggs Types as Geniuses

“Ok so I sometimes try to type characters but I always think the smart ones have to be Ts instead of Fs. Could you give examples of what each type would look like as geniuses? Also, are some types more likely to be clever than others?”

First of all, personality type doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with intelligence. It has to do with how the brain functions, not how well it functions. That said, I do think that the way the brain functions does play into what a person’s interests they are (for instance, how interested they are in learning). So yes, I would say that certain types are more likely, although not universally set to be more intellectual.

NTs typically show up in statistics as having the highest IQs. I was tested at one point with an IQ of 146, but in my opinion, IQ isn’t really an accurate measure of intelligence, and here’s why.

The definition of intelligence is highly subjective. One might be intelligent in the area of mathematics, or one might also be incredibly intelligent as to the art of baking. But, since I’ve assumed that you’re talking about the vile patriarchal values that dictate my education (aka book-smarts), I’ve comprised a list of examples for you.

However, do keep in mind that MBTI personality types have loads of stereotypes hooked on them. For instance, the stereotype that all INTxs are geniuses.

Wrong. Remember, there are people like Billy Pilgrim.

Furthermore, the media has an overwhelming tendency to present each personality type according to stereotypes. Most of the uber-intelligent characters that come up in fiction tend to be rationals. There far fewer NTs that pop up in fiction presented as stupid, and very few SFs that are presented as smart. Ultimately, that leads to further stereotyping of all NTs as smart and all SFs as stupid. Poor children of this earth…

Consider also, that there are varying degrees of intelligence. In one place, a person may be the smartest person in the room, but step into the next room and they may feel like a blundering idiot in pannyhoes.

Here are some examples, and like I said –yes, there seem to be more of them in certain categories than others. I’ve included both fictionals and real people. Obviously, not all of these are going to be geniuses, but I’ve tried to put in what a fairly intelligent person should look like for each type.

Clever examples:

INTP: Charles Augustus Magnussen, Peter Parker, Charles Darwin, Rene Descartes

ENTP: the 11th Doctor, the 5th Doctor, Jim Moriarty, Petra Arkanian, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Edison

INTJ: Ender Wiggin, the 12th Doctor, the 4th Doctor, Sherlock, Stephen Hawking, Nikola Tesla, Steve Jobs, John Nash

ENTJ: Peter Wiggin, Tony Stark, Bill Gates, Carl Sagen, Loki (Thor)

INFP: the 9th Doctor, Albert Einstein, Brian Cox, Tom Hiddleston, John Green

ENFP: Jonathan Strange, the 10th Doctor, Michio Kaku

INFJ: the 8th Doctor, Neils Bohr, Bruce Banner (the Hulk – sometimes INTP depending on the actor playing him)

ENFJ: Charles Xavier, Gwen Stacy

ISTP: Indiana Jones, Natasha Romanov (Black Widow)

ESTP: Tintin

ISTJ: Mr. Norrell, Spock, Sigmund Frued, Allan Turing

ESTJ: Hermione Granger, Mycroft Holmes, Bryan Mills (Taken)

ISFP: Jane (Ender’s Game)

ESFP: Benedict Cumberbatch…is unfortunately the smartest one I can think of…

ISFJ: Rory Gilmore (Gilmore Girls)

ESFJ: Danielle de Barbarac (Ever After)

Sorry, but I couldn’t think of any for the blank ones. Comments gladly welcome if you think of any.

It appears that NTs are in the lead (actually, to be completely honest, I deliberately cut the INTx lists down to just to be nice to the ENTx groups). NFs and STs appear next in line and sorry for all of you SFs, but you’re last. Results are inconclusive. Judge as you see fit.

Stereotypes

“You mention stereotypes a lot  in your posts. Could you tell what you think are the main stereotypes of each MBTI type?”

Obviously, the stereotypes don’t accurately describe each type. Some of the types have mainly positive stereotypes, while others get negative stereotypes.

Here goes.

ISFJ

boring, shallow and traditional, doormat, clingy, demanding, motherly, gentle

ESFJ

extremely shallow slut, obsessed with image, insincere, stupid

ISTJ

obsessive compulsive disorder, cop where no cop has been appointed, robots with no feelings, un-creative

ESTJ

control freak who judges everyone, workaholic, incredibly biassed, strict, don’t know how to have fun, obsessed with keeping the rules, teacher’s pet

INTJ

sociopaths, secretly plotting to overtake the world, most likely to kill you in your sleep, geniuses, arrogant, always the villain, robots with no feelings, incapable of being in a relationship

ENTJ

entrepreneur manipulator, bully, power hungry, narcissistic, have no ethical code, bossy, doesn’t care about you

INFJ

empath who loves everyone, are ethically perfect, have a psychic understanding of everyone,

ENFJ

gullible sweetheart, cuddle bunny, naive and innocent, smiley and overemotional

INFP

ultra-creative emo, loners, non-confrontational, emotionally unstable, day-dreamer

ENFP

super smiley happy person with dreams, ADHD, constant mood swings, childish, concerned with social image

INTP

philosopher that can’t make decisions, gamer, geniuses, atheists, computer wizards, robots with no feelings

ENTP

ADHD lunatic, can’t take anything seriously, gets their kicks from seeing people’s reactions, no feelings

 

ISTP

James Bond, criminally insane, into extreme sports, likes cars, risk taker

ESTP

I’m going to jump off that cliff and see what happens, hyper-sexual, doesn’t think before acting

ISFP

incredible artist, animal lover, over-sensitive, disorganised and terrible at planning, pushover

ESFP

easily entertained goof-off, party animal, hypersexual, attention whore, flow, dumb, thinks they’re INTJs

Which is more Selfish: Extroverted or Introverted Feeling?

Which is more Selfish: Extroverted or Introverted Feeling?

It’s not uncommon that people of different MBTI types consider the others selfish. Extraverted Feelers (Fe-users) often see Introverted Feelers (Fi-users) as selfish, and vice versa.

Fe-users look at Fi-users and seeing them more in tune with themselves than others, perceive this as selfishness. Fi-users look at the Fe tendency to go with the crowd and perceive them as fakes. Continue reading